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Everyone once in a while, it all gets to be TOO MUCH….
he said muttering to himself with tears welling up but
refusing steadfastly to to the surface.
“Take it like a man – Big Boys don’t cry…” he heard the
voice in his head say, hearing it in the tone of his own Dad.
The Family Court Judge banged down her gavel and said: “YOU sir need a lawyer…I’m not going to hear anything further from you on this subject….”
“WHY can’t she just see what that evil $#@!@#$ of an ex-wife is doing to me!” As he stormed out of the Courtroom, as the Judge said: “Now Ms. Ex-wife Lawyer…what are your cots for this man wasting our time today?”
“$1500.00 between preparation and appearance your Honour”
said Ms. Ex-wife Lawyer…”
“So ordered – the father to pay to the mother’s lawyer $1500.00 in costs before the next hearing…” said Her Honour…
But that dad never heard Her Honour, because he did not have
something that I had as he stormed past me outside the Courtroom Doors, ranting and raving to anyone who would listen (and nobody was listening to him because he looked a little bit dangerous he was so ANGRY…)
What he was suffering from was “Divorced Dad Syndrome”.
The LOSING attitude. And it was affecting how he saw the world, related to people like the Children’s Lawyer and the Judge….
He felt defeated from the onset, because he had never learned how to manage his stress levels, let alone dissipate it. And today it was going to cost him everything….
The reason he never heard the Judge order costs, and was not
permitted to participate in the next hearing was this Dad did not have one key ingredient in his plan for Family Court – namely, he did not have a plan, nor did he have….
….”THE WINNING ATTITUDE”….
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DIVORCED DAD WEEKLY CALL DETAILS
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SUNDAY EVENING’S CALL:
“Divorced Dad Roadmap: The Winning Attitude”
I’ll be discussing with Heidi the Psychology of Winning
in Family Court. Please join us for our weekly 70 minute
teleseminar on Sunday January 13th, 2008at 7:50 PM
EST at
http://www.DivorcedDadWeekly.com
or phone in at:
Phone Number to Dial: 1-218-486-3696
Use Conference ID:425834#
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DOWNLOAD THE ACTION GUIDE FOR THE CALL
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Look for the Action Guide to be ready sometime tomorrow.
for download at:
http://www.DivorcedDadWeekly.com
It’s a good idea to download it before the call then print
it up so you can follow along as you develop…
“YOUR FAMILY COURT GAME PLAN”…
Remember, without a plan, you are being led to follow
someone else’s plan – The plan of your ex-wife and her
lawyer.
That’s what these teleseminars are designed to do: Help
you to create a VERY effective plan of your own.
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HAVE YOU GOT QUESTIONS FOR TONIGHT’S
DIVORCED DAD WEEKLY CALL ? HERE’S HOW
YOU CAN ASK THEM….
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If you want to leave us questions before the call, go to
http://www.DivorcedDadWeekly.com
You can write and send them to us directly into
our webcast panel before or during the call.
PLAN to be there on this Sunday’s call [First Name],
won’t you? You are tired of losing for no good reason
right?
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WORLD TIME FOR THIS WEEK’S CALL
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For those joining us in North America:
8:00pm – Eastern / 7:00pm Central / 5:00pm – Pacific
For those joining us from around the World:
Pacific Honolulu, Hawaii:
3:00pm – January 13, 2008
Europe GMT Time:
1:00am – January 14, 2008
Hong Kong Time:
9:00am – January 14, 2008
Australia Perth Time:
10:00am – January 14, 2008
Australia Victoria Time:
12:00pm – January 14, 2008
You’re invited to join us live on the call at 7:50 PM Eastern either by dialing in, where we will welcome you to the call.
Alternately, you can listen in on the call via the internet through our telewebcast player on the right hand side of the page, which will goes LIVE 10 minutes before we begin the training call.
There is a FREE “Action Guide” that you will want to download in order to refer to it during the training call at: DivorcedDadMinute.com
Towards the end of the training session, we take questions live from the question panel below. You can enter these questions at any time during the training session, which we will answer during the Question and Answer segment which is at the end of the training session.
At that time, we also we open the telephone lines so you can speak with us directly, if you phone the number and Conference ID in RED on the righthand side of this web page.
One strategy we can recommend is to listen to us on the webcast and then join us live via telephone during the Q & A session. For some of you calling long distance, we recommend purchasing a long distance telephone card to reduce long distance charges.
Alternately, there is software at Skype.com which you can download to make phone calls via the internet and your computer. You will need a USB headset microphone.
PLEASE NOTE: If you call via Skype, it is VERY IMPORTANT to turn down your speakers in order for us to be heard clearly by all callers.
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FINALLY….
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There is no reason to be losing so badly, except that
you don’t have the right ideas, tools nor skills. BUT….
IF… you can listen, follow a plan and are “coach-able”,
we can DEFINITELY help you to improve the situation.
http://www.DivorcedDadWeekly.com
Come be a WINNER.
With ENORMOUS gratitude,
Danny Guspie
Executive Director
Fathers’ Resources International
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