The following is not legal advice.
Waging Peace is the # 1 Negotiation / Positioning tool, strategy, tactic and systematic approach we recommend for creating multiple win/win solutions when you are a divorced dad in Family Court, facing custody, access, child visitation and child support issues.
Waging Peace means putting aside blame, anger, recrimination, fault finding, revenge and all other negative emotions and fully considering the implications of every choice you make and how it will affect your child of divorce.
Becoming a model of peace is not an easy task if you have yet to apply the logic of the previous Divorce 101 steps, unless of course it is your natural inclination and predilection to be a peace maker.
Sometimes you may have to do things that are inconvenient to best serve your child’s best interests. Keep in mind your childhood is over. It’s now your child’s turn to have a parent the can rely on to do what is best, not what is expedient.
You may hate your child’s Mom. Perhaps she betrayed you. Perhaps she has told HUGE lies about you resulting in criminal charges and arrest. It’s hard to wage peace with someone acting so horribly. But consider that if you rise to the bait of such provocations and inflammatory approaches, you have stooped to the very same level.
Most men claim to be “Good Men”. Waging peace is the active example of being a good man. It is your natural role as a leader in your family, be it together, separated or divorced. It is also your duty to your child, who desperately needs your leadership and loving example of what is proper moral, ethical behaviour in all relationships, not just those with whom you disagree with.
World Peace begins at home. We can never have world peace if we ourselves are not examples of peaceful behaviour. “Divorce 101 – Step Four – Negotiation: Positioning For Peace” is your roadmap to becoming a “peaceful warrior”, tirelessly advocating for the rights of your child instead of a self-serving interest, or those who have a poor attitude, or whose only strategy is intimidation and fear mongering.
Please join us on Call # 5 – “Divorce 101 – Step Four – Negotiation: Positioning For Peace”. We will show you the way successful divorced dads use “Waging Peace” inside and outside Family Court to make lasting peace for their children.
Danny Guspie & Heidi Nabert
The Dynamic Divorce Duo